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How to read someone's body language?

Body Language        If you’re talking to someone at a coffeehouse and wonder, should you ask him or her out? Research has shown that words account for only 7 percent of how we communicate whereas our body language accounts for 55 percent and voice tone accounts for 30 percent. FBI profilers also say that microexpressions, tone, and gaze can expose deception.       Be comfortable, sit back, and simply observe. You’re training yourself to develop a more detailed eye for the world. Note what you pick up without straining. If you’re not getting cues or are unsure about the ones you observe, don’t force things to fit. Wait until the signs are clearer. Too much effort blocks the process because you’re trying to push something that can’t be pushed. After the reading, you can analyze what signs ring true and let them guide your interactions CHECKLIST OF BODY LANGUAGE CUES: PAY ATTENTION TO APPEARANCE:       This offers general information about...

How to sense emotional energy of anyone?

 Emotional Energy      Emotions are a stunning expression of our energy, the “vibe” we give off. We register these with intuition. Some people feel good to be around; they improve your mood and vitality. Others are draining; you instinctively want to get away. This “subtle energy” can be felt inches or feet from the body, though it’s invisible. STRATEGIES TO READ EMOTIONAL ENERGY. 1) SENSE PEOPLE’S PRESENCE:        This is the overall energy we emit, and it’s not necessarily congruent with words or behavior. It’s the emotional atmosphere surrounding us, like a rain cloud or the sun. For instance, we may give off an aura of mystery, joy, or sadness. To compare extremes, think of the Dalai Lama’s light, compassionate presence versus Charles Manson’s deranged darkness. Presence is also associated with charisma, a personal magnetism that you’re drawn to. Warning: charisma doesn’t always contain heart. Charisma without heart can’t be trusted. It’s...

Human engineering skills

 Studies made at carnegie institute of technology says that,"about 15 percent of one's financial success is due to one's technical knowledge and about 85 percent is due to skill in human engineering and ability to lead people.                         ~from the book HOW TO WIN FRIENDS AND INFLUENCE PEOPLE by DALE CARNEGIE.

QUOTE OF THE DAY

  We live in a universe of give and receive, breath and exhale, live and die, suck and awesome. Each side depends on the other, and each is relative to other. every action has an equal and opposite reaction. So more you give, the more you receive. And vice versa.